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Chapter 4: Women who let go of attachments can successfully develop relationships with others In Chapter 4, in addition to “How to let go of attachments,” I will share with you some ways of thinking that I think are particularly important in love and life. This chapter is full of tips to help you take control of your life and live a flexible, light-hearted life.If you think deeply, continue to ask questions, and deepen your understanding, you will surely be able to have a satisfying relationship. Become aware of your assumptions and let them go: to be liberated from attachment Attachments often arise from unconscious beliefs.Therefore, reexamining and eliminating your […]

Chapter 3: Be careful! Things that will make you more obsessed with men Chapters 1 and 2 gave you some ideas on how to understand and improve your own condition.However, no matter how much you improve yourself, if you choose the wrong partner, you will not be able to escape from obsessive love. In Chapter 3, we will explain in detail the characteristics of men who lead to obsessive relationships and the points to look out for in judging a partner.💡 Be wary of men who are unplanned, thoughtless, and irresponsible. How about something like this? 😊 I’ve made it more natural and strengthened the message!Let me know if there’s […]

Chapter 2: Characteristics of women who want to fall in love normally but become obsessed for some reason Chapter 1 focused on the phenomenon of “attachment.”Then, in Chapter 2, we’ll delve deeper into the thinking and behavioral patterns of obsessive women. As you read on, you may find your heart broken.But that pain is necessary for growth. Without pain, there is no learning or change.That’s why, please read on with courage and determination to reexamine the very essence of yourself. There is nothing else I can be passionate about except love The biggest characteristic of people who become obsessed with one person is that they have a lot of free […]

Chapter 1: Dependence, escapism, victim mentality… Many people who have trouble in love think, “Maybe it’s obsession.” 1. I know it’s better to leave, but I can’t This is one of the most common concerns we hear when discussing love.In love, Reason and emotion, desire and reason are not in agreement This is often the case. In my head I think, “I need to get out of this relationship. “Even though I know that, my emotions “I don’t want to leave!” and resists, resulting in conflict…And in this inner conflict Emotions often win and manifest as strong attachments. The cause of obsession is the belief that “romantic feelings should be […]

Chapter 2: I will decide the outcome of this love 018 Unrequited love is always the best The title is a response to the question, “What should I do if I fall in love with my teacher?” In the small world of school, the only people close to you are your classmates, seniors, and juniors, but the person asking this question was probably attracted to someone who was much older than you and stood out from the crowd. The teacher is kind to everyone, but you may have felt that he is only kind to you because you were in trouble or approached him proactively. Furthermore, if you force the […]

Chapter 3: In the end, love changes 040 “Maybe I don’t like you anymore” means I don’t like you anymore When you no longer know whether you love your partner or not, in most cases, it is evidence that you no longer really love them. Even if you change your mind during the break-up conversation and decide that you still love them, your new love is likely to be different from the one you had before. For example, when you feel that you no longer need a certain piece of stationery that you’ve been using for a long time, your attachment to that stationery has already faded. Similarly, there are […]

Chapter 4: It’s not easy to get what you want 050 “He’s a nice guy though” is the beginning of unrequited love This is just an excuse to turn someone down, and is a word used to avoid being treated like the bad guy. First of all, people are weak to things they don’t have. If you hear the phrase “a nice person who does everything you want,” it may sound like the ideal lover. For example, if you say “I want to see you” after work, he will rush over right away, and if you call him, he will happily answer. Even if you behave in a way that […]

Chapter 1: Dreams are dreams, they are not something you can achieve 000 Prologue I will make it clear in advance that I tried not to go into too much detail when I wrote this. I have included only the essential information, and have deliberately omitted supplementary sentences and preambles. As a result, some parts may be difficult to understand at first glance. However, this omission is intentional. So why didn’t I go into detail? Why did I make such an attempt in a medium like a book, which has no character limit? The answer is quite simple. It’s because I want you to learn about love and be able […]

Chapter 2: Rules for getting closer to “the position he wants you to be” Rules to bring you closer to “the position he wants you to be” The main premise is that “the position he wants you to be in” will only shrink little by little. It rarely happens that one day, someone who was not romantically interested in you suddenly wants to marry you. However, sadly, it often happens that “the position he wants you to be” suddenly moves away from you. Even if the two of you were in love until yesterday, the moment you do something that he considers “absolutely unforgivable,” he will start thinking, “I don’t […]

Chapter 3 Value analysis to become his special woman Get his own strategy book! What is values ​​analysis? In this chapter, I will explain in detail the value analysis that will help you get closer to “the position he wants you to be.” Each person has a different sense of what they value and what they think is right. What may be obvious to you may be different to him, so it is important to analyze his values. If you are able to behave in a way that aligns with his values ​​through value analysis, he will feel that you get along well with him, and he will want to […]